Anthony Pilato

Anthony C. "Tony" Pilato

Saturday, December 19th, 1936 - Monday, June 15th, 2020
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Irondequoit: Suddenly on Monday, June 15, 2020 at the age of 83. Predeceased by his parents, Joseph and Katherine; brother, Joseph; sister, Phyllis Lobene. Survived by his son, Anthony J. Pilato; daughter, Andrea Pilato; grandson, Nicolas Pilato; former wife, Frances Pilato; nephew, Joey (Karen) Lobene, nieces, Kim Lobene, Lisa Messmer and Rhonda Bigelow; several cousins and many friends. Tony was a veteran of the Korean War. He was proprietor of Central Roadways and the Bay Street Carwash. He was also a former City of Rochester Fireman in his early days. Tony was always hardworking, loved his dogs, loved to dance and made everyone laugh. He was a colorful man.

Family and friends are invited to a graveside service this Friday, June 19th 10am at Irondequoit Cemetery. Memorials may be made to Lollypop Farm. Please visit to share a memory of Tony.
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    Friday, June 19th, 2020 | 10:00am
    Friday, June 19th, 2020 10:00am
    Irondequoit Cemetery


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Posted at 11:19am
Mr. P, You will be sadly missed. .You have a heart of gold; and I will certainly miss our sauce on Sundays, as well as the home made pizza in the pizza oven. I am sure you are waving to us from your red Ferrari, wearing your pink shirt. xo...Marilyn Sarkis

Tony DeSanctis

Posted at 07:03pm
This is Tony DeSanctis- I would have loved to attend the graveside service, but because I’m 99 I’m doing my best to stay at home and keep socially distant right now. I always loved seeing Tony at the coffee shop. He was so nice, always giving me a hug hello and buying me a cup of coffee. He will be missed.

Romina Lawrence

Posted at 06:29pm
Tony was always smiling. He was so kind to my husband Jon and I. He will be missed.

Tommy Springer

Posted at 10:09am
Crossed paths with Anthony in many spots as a bartender; and even though he didn't drink...he was nothing if not a class act! He always had time for a kind word and he will be sorely missed! My sincere condolences to his family and friends! Respectfully...Tom Springer Jr.

Cathy Marra

Posted at 11:32pm
Such a tragic loss of a man who truly enjoyed life... thanks for the laughter and always keeping the dance floor moving and fun. Tony was one of a kind and will never be forgotten. RIP, Tony! With deepest sympathy to Tony's family.

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