Wednesday, April 14th 2021 at the age of 91. Predeceased by her parents, Chester and Calista Ockenden; husband, Elmer "Corky"; sister, Norma (Thomas) Lewis. Survived by her son, John (Donald Young) Kirchgessner; niece, Calista (Sean) Dugan; great and great-great nieces and nephews.

Graveside Services will be held privately at Irondequoit Cemetery. Memorials may be made to Episcopal Church Home Foundation, ATTN: Jennifer Rougeux 1570 East Ave. Rochester, NY 14610. Please visit www.giltnerfuneralhomes.com to share a memory of Betsy.