Pat was my spiritual director for about 5 years when I was in my 20s. She had, and continues to have, such a huge impact on my life. She set the example for me of how to be an adult - an example I really needed at the time. She pulled no punches, and yet she guided me with such affection and gentleness. I cherish her memory, and my heart goes out to those who were closest to her. Know that she touched so many people through her work and we are so grateful to have known her. see more